The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts For Women in 2021

Thirteen creative, not-your-box-of-chocolates Valentine’s Day Gifts for Women in 2021. Ideas that will make the ladies in your life feel seen, special, and appreciated during the season of love.

The Best Valentine’s Day Gifts For Women in 2021

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1.) Blush Best Friends Set by Put On Love Designs

This set of two rose gold metallic sliders with blush diffusing suede is the perfect gift for your bestie—keep one for yourself and give one to her as a reminder that, no matter what, you will always be there for her as she has always been there for you! You and your friend can also use these bracelets to diffuse essential oils!

2.) Pocket Maya Angelou Wisdom Inspirational Quotes by Amazon

A collection of the beloved Maya Angelou’s best and most empowering quotes. This keepsake will delight her most dedicated fans, and also inspire readers who are not familiar with her work and want a daily dose of thought-provoking magic. Unsure of whether you’re a poet person? Trust me, Maya is no ordinary poet. I’ll leave you with one of my favorite lines from her poetry…

3.) Give ‘Em Lip Color Intense Lipstick by Beautycounter

Sometimes a good lip color just makes your day, am I right? And this is the perfect pick-me-up for any beauty lover! The bright cardboard tube is designed by artist Lisa Congdon, and the lip color is intense and creamy with a rich satin finish. And, to make things sweeter, all of Beautycounter’s products are safe with clean ingredients – something we really value here at Whimsy + Wellness.

4.) Reese Witherspoon’s Book Club Subscription by Audible

If one of your 2021 goals includes reading more, Reese Witherspoon’s Hello Sunshine book club is the perfect place to start. Each month Reese picks a book with a woman at the center of the plot and shares it with her audience on Instagram, Facebook, and Goodreads. If fitting in the time to read a monthly book feels daunting, an Audible subscription (books on audio) could be the perfect gift for you. Download the free Audible app and with your subscription, you’ll receive monthly credits to apply towards any book of your choosing, but Reese’s book picks get our stamp of approval.

5.) The Frances Loafer in Leopard Calf Hair by Madewell

While these loafers aren’t pink or red, leopard made the Valentine’s Day Best Gifts For Women cut because I like to keep things spicy. If you’re a mom, like me, you know that flats are a must once you start schlepping car seats, diaper bags, and sippy cups, but that flats can also be the piece of your wardrobe that makes a statement without a ton of effort. These loafers get rave reviews and check all the boxes on fit, cuteness, versatility, and whimsy. Need!

6.) Zodiac Constellation Roller by Whimsy + Wellness

If there was an essential oil roller bottle that fit Valentine’s Day like a glove, it’s a roller bottle from our Zodiac Constellation collection! These 10ml refillable rollers are BEAUTIFUL, and they come with your choice of a glass roller ball or a carefully chosen gemstone roller ball.

7.) Rose Gold Leather Essential Oil Pouch by Magnolia Leatherworks

We are longtime fans of the quality, precision, and craftsmanship of Magnolia Leatherworks, and this rose gold leather oil pouch holds 5 of your favorite 5 ml essential oil bottles. Each pouch comes with a key fob and a credit card pouch so you have everything you need in one handy place!

8.) Reclaimed Wood Top Roller Necklace by Ohio Moon Designs

We asked on Instagram if you all had any favorite shops we should know about and Ohio Moon Designs was mentioned as a well-loved and loyal place to shop for essential oil roller bottle necklaces. We love that the wood tops are made of reclaimed wood!

9.) Eight DatesEssential Conversations for A Lifetime of Love by Amazon

After listening to a fascinating podcast interview on Goop with Dr. John Gottman and Dr. Julie Gottman, I had to highlight their recently released book. Drawing on 40 years of research from their famous Love Lab, the Gottmans invite couples on eight fun, easy, and profoundly rewarding dates, each one focused on a make-or-break issue: trust, conflict, sex, money, family, adventure, spirituality, and dreams.

10.) Crystal Beginnings: a Crystal Starter Kit by Whimsy + Wellness

Crystal Beginnings is a crystal set designed for those new to incorporating crystals into their lives. It comes with 5 popular crystals (Amethyst, Citrine, Clear Quartz, Smoky Quartz, and Rose Quartz) all the perfect size to hold in your palm. This set also comes with an info booklet that explains exactly how to incorporate these crystals into your every day routine and a beautiful zipper bag for storage. It’s such a delight to open as a gift!

11.) Fun Conversation Card Game for Couples by Amazon

If you’ve ever sat down next to you partner at the end of a long and exhausting week and found yourself wanting to connect but not knowing where to begin, these fun, conversation-starter cards could be for you. With technology vying for our downtime more than ever before, it’s hard to carve out moments to sit and really listen to the people we love. But! This game makes it easy. 100 cards with thought-provoking questions like, “What’s something you’ve tried that you’ll never ever try again?” Conversation game-changer!

12.) Golden Hour Rainbow Diffuser Necklace by Robin Lee Essentials

Miscarriage and loss is a huge part of our story here at Whimsy + Wellness. I know firsthand the tension of holding love with grief in both hands. I love these handmade rainbow diffuser necklaces from Robin Lee Essentials, and thought of all the mamas who may be celebrating love this February with empty arms, aching to hold their little ones close. This necklace is a sweet reminder that hope springs eternal.

13.) You Are Magic Affirmation Cards by Whimsy +Wellness

These affirmations cards are the PERFECT gift for the strong women in your life!! The set includes 30 cards, each with a unique, powerful affirmation and an oil and crystal pairing to bring you into the day with positivity and strength.

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And there you have it. 13 of the Best Valentine’s Day Gifts For Women in 2021. You can check out our favorite gifts for men here, and our list for kids here! Which gifts do you love? What are you giving your favorite people? Let us know in the comments below!

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